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Every person dreams about something. We invariably desire something, and at the time we achieve it, we have a new desire. It is this property of each of us that does not allow the world to stand still; our innumerable demands contribute to the fact that every year humanity reaches a new level of development, the latest achievements of science and technology, films, books, etc. appear. We desire so much that sometimes we no longer know what specific desires can be made in a certain situation.

We believe that when a star falls, you need to make a wish and it will definitely come true. We look at the sky, waiting for it to fall, and at the time when this happens, we get lost and do not have time to formulate what we want. Dozens of different thirsts run through our heads at once, and we cannot quickly decide what is priority for us.

Thirsts for the New Year or Birthday

Health. So, decide what you want more than anything in the world? What can be put off until later, and what is needed right now? I mean, at this stage of life. Think about your health. Because without it, essentially, nothing is nice to us. If you have some kind of disease, during the New Year's chimes, or while blowing out the candles, you want to be cured of it.
Career growth. What about a career? Without financial resources and self-realization, we will not be able to live a full life. Feel free to order wealth for yourself: a car, an apartment, a yacht, a treasure chest.
Love. Life is not only laughter, but also tears, it is both happiness and sorrow, and what feeling can bring together all the emotions characteristic of human nature? Of course, love. Where would we be without her? Are you dreaming of meeting your soul mate? I know, you're dreaming. So why would such a good dream not come true?
Friendship. If you don’t have friends, don’t hesitate, make a wish to find them. Believe me, they will not only brighten up your existence, but will also provide assistance in difficult situations.
Relatives. And definitely don’t forget about your family and friends. You want your whole family to be healthy and not need anything?

what a quantity of thirst, isn't it? These are just the most basic and adequate of them. From this the conclusion suggests itself: it is better to combine them into one main desire, otherwise we simply will not have time to scroll through all this in our heads while the chimes are striking. Just think to yourself wishing to be joyful and mean all these aspects of life.

What if a simple person can fulfill a wish? A woman or a boy, who, for example, lost to you in a game of chance. So what wish can you make for a loser? Why will you fall into a stupor again, thinking about what to come up with? It is better to prepare for such a course of events in advance.

How can you make a wish for a girl?

If a woman loses in some game or argument, the most entertaining ideas come to mind. For example:

Let him dance an intimate private dance. You have the opportunity to invite her to wear beautiful lingerie and amaze you in full.
Romantic evening. If you are trying to establish a relationship with her, then it is better not to start with dancing. Ask her to arrange a dinner for two, choose her own menu and place for the meeting. She must turn on her imagination and make sure that you really like it.
Date. Do you dream that she will become yours? Now you have all the trump cards in your hands, invite her on a date, she won’t be able to get out, because, by agreement, more expensive than money, and use your chance wisely. This should be a date that will make her want to be yours, so in this case it will be you who surprises, not her.
If your woman loses to you, you have the opportunity to ask her to quit bad habit, which you don't like. It goes without saying that it is not a fact that such a wish will come true, but it is worth trying.
Do you want to play a joke? Tell her to serenade you or write poetry in your honor.
Well, if she is the love of your life, then shock her with a declaration of love and a marriage proposal. This is what they call playing games!

What kind of wish can a young man make?

All the above-described thirsts are suitable for young men, except, I think, the last one. You shouldn’t ask him to marry you, it’s better to make a wish:

Kiss! Affectionate, strong and unforgettable,
A gift. Wonderful, useful, at his discretion.
Swimming in a local fountain in the middle of the street or something like that.
A service that you ask him to perform at a time when you need it.

Make a wish that is only up to your imagination, but do not forget that the wish should not be humiliating, otherwise the game will turn into a quarrel.

A wish game will help you have a fun romantic evening or entertain a bored group of friends. Depending on the situation, the fun can be made not only funny, but also a touch of vulgarity can be added to it or a little risk can be added.

But what kind of wish should you make for a guy, and what kind of wish should you make for a girl, if your imagination fails you? When choosing entertainment, you should be guided by the sense of humor of the guests and the “heating degree” of the company.

Options for original desires for guys

The losing participant can be given a useful, sporting, extreme, or even obscene task. Entertainment with alcohol is not prohibited. There are many options, the main thing is that they are unusual and fun.

Entertainment of an obscene nature - great option for leisure in close, intimate company and for a couple in love.

There are many options for vulgar tasks, you just need not to make a mistake in choosing and choose an idea that suits the moment:

The participant can perform a seductive dance on the table, use a mop instead of a pole, or perform a striptease on the street.
A close man should be forced to give an erotic massage without using his hands.
The guy he loves will appreciate the girl’s idea to role-play a situation where she will act as a nurse or teacher. But the director of an erotic game must be a man.
The participant must sexually describe how he wants to eat this or that product.

When choosing vulgar entertainment, you must remember that some obscene tasks are best done only in a narrow circle.

For big company The following fun activities are suitable:

Spin the hoop and perform a funny song.
Go to the store with socks over your ears.
Eat a lemon sprinkled with salt and smile at the same time.
Using facial expressions, depict 10 different emotions.
Say hello to strangers on the street (at least 15 people), saying a new greeting each time.

You can put 3 jackets, 4 hats, 2 trousers on a friend and force him to visit nightclub. This desire will cause special joy in summer time year.

Add to the list funny entertainment maybe go skiing in the summer with a watermelon helmet on your head.

As a rule, a noisy evening with friends is not complete without strong drinks.

To “punish” the losing participant, you can give an alcohol task:

Drink a large glass of vodka in one gulp.
Swallow cognac or whiskey generously seasoned with hot pepper.
Empty the glass without touching it with your hands.
Drink 1 liter of beer without a break.
Go up to the 2nd floor of the house, taking a glass of strong drink at each step.

If desired, all members can participate in alcoholic entertainment fun company. For example, group game A game of checkers, where instead of figures there are glasses with strong drinks on the field, will certainly delight your friends.

Useful wishes

It's nice when a task for a friend brings not only pleasure to the company, but also benefit.

The losing participant should offer:

clean the apartment after a noisy feast;
prepare dinner for all members of the company;
wash the floors, take out the trash and wipe the dust;
iron clothes.

You can add a touch of fun to healthy entertainment. For example, invite a friend to sing patriotic songs loudly while performing a task.

You should be careful when choosing risky tasks. Not everyone among the guests may be extreme sports enthusiasts.

Extreme wish list:

swimming in an ice hole in winter;
climbing to the roof of a high-rise building with the task of doing something at the top;
bungee jump;
roller skating or skateboarding (makes sense if the loser does not know how to do this);
skydiving or kayaking down a mountain river.

Unusual desires

For a losing friend, you can come up with an extraordinary task:

Give gifts to strangers and wish them a good mood.
Place an ad in a magazine or newspaper indicating a phone number with a fun text.
Place a photo on your desktop with an unattractive girl and the inscription “My love.”
Collect 500 rubles by performing funny songs and fiery dances on the street.

An unusual entertainment would be to ask the losing participant to dye his hair a bright color and do so for several weeks.

Options for original desires for girls

The choice of desire for a girlfriend depends on the relationship between the winner and the loser. You can make an intimate wish to your beloved, offer a funny or useful task to your colleague, and surprise your girlfriend with an extreme request.

It's fun to ask a young girl to perform obscene tasks.

For example:

Walk to the nearest store in lingerie or a seductive chemise.
Dressed in a nurse's costume, save any guest by giving him artificial respiration.
Tell a stranger a poem or anecdote with obscene content.
Ask passing men for condoms and, if they refuse, beg them to buy them at the nearest pharmacy.
Put on underwear over your regular clothes and walk around like that.

You can please your beloved girl with more intimate tasks. For example, take a nude photo together or have sex in an unusual place.

Fun tasks will delight not only a noisy group, but will also cheer up your losing friend.

Amuse your friends:

Michael Jackson dancing with a saucepan on his head;
verse narrated with tongue hanging out;
a love song of his own composition recorded and posted on the Internet;
"flight" of Baba Yaga on a broom.

Try offering the losing person to order sushi or pizza at home and pay the courier with drawn money.

Tasks with strong drinks will help to amuse your friends and liberate your girl.

The friend is given a glass of beer and a hoop. The girl must rotate the sports equipment and drink the drink at the same time.
A bowl of wine is placed in front of the losing participant. The girl must drink the strong drink using only her tongue and lips.
After each loss, drink a glass and take off any item of clothing.

The game “Guess the drink” will amuse the company. Each member of the company pours alcohol for the losing girl, and her task is to determine what her friends gave her. For each wrong answer, the friend receives a fine in the form of an extra glass.

Useful wishes

For a losing friend, you can come up with not only a funny, but also useful wish for the whole company.

As a joke, you should offer the girl:

make tea for guests;
wash the windows in the apartment;
tidy up the shoes of the gathered friends;
work as a “waitress”;
beat and vacuum carpets;
wash the car.

It is best to give an extreme task to a lover of risk and danger.

For example:

using climbing equipment to descend a mountain or steep wall;
jump off a bridge with an elastic band in a skirt or short shorts;
overcome the obstacle course in heels (it is advisable for the participant to climb, crawl and jump over barriers);
go down the mountain in a transparent ball, dressed in a funny costume.

A fun and at the same time extreme desire is a grasshopper race. The player stands on a special projectile and jumps over a path of obstacles.

It will be more interesting if several people participate in the competition. When racing for speed, you won't be able to avoid falling, but watching a person fall is always fun.

Unusual desires

The losing girl can be given an original task:

Send a romantic message to an unknown number. Read the caller's response out loud.
Get your friend to play a journalist who will interview passersby. Record conversations with your phone camera.
Offer to walk past traffic police officers, pretending to be drunk.
Tell passers-by in a gypsy costume and earn 1000 rubles.
Sing her least favorite song at a karaoke club.

You can make any wish for the losing guy or girl that your imagination allows.

The main thing is that the chosen entertainment is fun and does not humiliate the dignity of your friend.

While my friends are summing up the year, I decided to start self-identification.
To begin with, I made a list of 100 wishes. It is desires, not dreams or goals. Did something - great. Didn't fulfill it - oh well. At the last point, an understanding came to me. I will periodically replenish it and cross out realized desires.

Try making your own list. It will be interesting.
Happy New Year, friends! Take care of yourself.

100 of my wishes

001. Spend the night in the forest
002. Climb to the top of Fuji
003. Visit Hokkaido
004. Learn to dance any couple dance
005. Ride an ATV in the desert
006. Learn to swim
007. Get a tattoo
008. See a whale in the wild
009. Watch the Northern Lights
010. Lying in a haystack on a warm summer evening
011. Start your own business
012. Fly in a hot air balloon
013. Skydive
014. Shoot on Khasim
015. See how the sky merges with the earth in the Uyuni salt marsh
016. See the most starry open sky
017. Look through the telescope of a real observatory
018. Climb the lighthouse
019. Drinking coffee on the veranda in red autumn, listening to old records
020. Buy an apartment
021. Travel through any large country
022. Eat frogs, snails, etc. in France
023. Plant a tree, or better yet a lot
024. See Baikal in summer and winter
025. Become good photographer, even on Instagram
✓ 026.
027. Write a book, maybe a very small one
028. Assemble a huge puzzle
029. Walking barefoot in the rain on wet grass
030. Visit Mongolia and inside Genghis Khan
031. Visit a Japanese cafe where the waitresses walk without panties on the mirrored floor
032. Take a photo with Hakuei
033. Make a film about the trip
034. Become popular on the Internet
035. Watch all films by Takeshi Kitano
036. Make another person happy
037. Catch a fish and fry it on the spot
038. Run along a deserted beach under a gray sky
039. Touch the rainbow
040. Launch a lot of paper lanterns
041. Learn to cook sushi and rolls
042. Find a starfish
043. Eat an ear of corn in a corn field
044. Visit a field with sunflowers
045. Shoot with a real revolver
046. Find treasure
047. Travel around Canada
048. Visit New Zealand
049. Watch the sunrise on a mountain peak
050. Launch kite in the field
051. Build or buy a house
052. Swing in a hammock in the village
053. Meet a hedgehog in the forest
054. Hand feed the squirrels
055. Watch carp in the Japanese garden
056. Run along the Great Wall of China
057. Learn cool tricks with a yo-yo
058. Sex with a sexy Japanese girl
✓ 059. Pancakes with maple syrup
060. Threesome with two ladies
061. Drink mulled wine on a winter evening near the fireplace
062. Attend a performance by machine or PENICILLIN, among two dozen housewives
063. Walk all night
064. Learn to drive a car
065. Grow at least some beard
066. Learn to speak Japanese well
067. Get to a desert island
068. Visit Sequoia National Park
069. Fall in love seriously and for a long time
070. Sledding down a huge slope
071. Take photos of a thousand strangers on the street
072. Learn to never put anything off
073. Take a walk around Pripyat
074. Walk the Haiku Stairs on Oahu from start to finish
075. Visit Neuschwanstein Castle
076. Take a walk in a field with windmills
077. Ride a Vespa
078. Learn to play musical instrument
✓ 079. Make your own website
080. Fight with bamboo swords
081. Knit a scarf
082. Launch a cool internet project
083. Drink rum on a yacht in the Pacific Ocean
084. Drive a Formula 1 car
085. Hand feed a giraffe
086. Take a girl for a ride on a bike
087. Touch the seahorse
088. Play Virtual Boy
089. Travel in time
090. Learn to control dreams
091. Make a thousand paper cranes
092. Ring the bells
093. Bake a bucket of pies
094. Milk a cow
095. Create a mini-apocalypse
096. Visit Plitvice Lakes
097. Visit any other space object
098. Try a hundred rice dishes
099. Fly a plane
100. Stop designing

101. Edit a clip about a trip to Japan under sajou no uta
102. Drive through all of Russia
103. See a huge powerful tornado

How long have you dreamed of making your dreams come true? Believe it or not, bucket lists actually work. Astro7 experts shared secrets that will help you fulfill all your desires.

Why do you need a wish list?

You need to write desires on paper at least in order to think carefully and understand what you really want to get from life. Many people complain about life, but at the same time they themselves do not understand what they really want. Good job, a happy family, a beautiful house - all these are abstractions that society dictates to us. They have nothing to do with what you really want.

Desires must be meaningful and specific. A standard example is you tell your friend: “I want to get married.” If the desire is not specified, it can be fulfilled in the most unexpected way - a good-for-nothing husband, he’s also a husband, isn’t he? It seems that the wish came true, but there was still no female happiness. Or a person makes a wish, the fulfillment of which requires some effort, while he lies on the sofa. For example, if you want to win a million in the lottery, but don’t buy lottery ticket, then no “magic list” will help here.

The success of your bucket list depends only on you, not on a Higher Power. Dream, specify your desires and go towards them according to a clear plan. Remember, no one is more beautiful, smarter or more worthy than you. It’s just that someone knows what they want and confidently moves towards their goal while you are not even aware of your real desires.

What determines the effectiveness of a list?

The power of a bucket list depends on your level of awareness. It is customary to distinguish three levels of awareness, which, like nesting dolls, lie within each other. A person can go through all three levels, or he can remain on the first without taking a single step forward.

Level 1: “Life in the Shallows”

You live in the shallows - feeling unhappy and lonely, avoiding what scares you and pursuing what you enjoy. But isolation from the people around you and fixation on material wealth does not bring you the desired psychological satisfaction. Your wish list is doomed because it only reflects an obsession with things. What kind of dreams are there if you only have money in your head?

Second level: “Inner peace”

You have achieved inner peace, but at any moment you can lose it and find yourself in shallow water. To prevent this from happening, remember that money has never made anyone happy - do not put material wealth at the top of your wish list. Only those who have achieved inner harmony, can count on their wishes coming true.

Level 3: Ring of Fire

You have no attachment to everything you loved in the shallows. You know what true values are: physical and mental health, relationships with family and friends, family harmony, etc. If you are at this level, you write down truly cherished dreams on your list and they come true.

Choose a day when you have a few hours free from work and household chores. Turn off the TV and radio, turn off the phone and retire so that no one at home disturbs you. Take a few sheets of paper, a pen and start writing your wishes.

First, write everything that comes to your mind - do not think about how desirable and fulfillable your desires are. When all your thoughts are on paper, re-read the list. You must recognize each desire and cross it off or keep it on the list. Specify the desires that you have decided to leave behind, and decide what steps and in what time frame you need to take to fulfill them. Write your wishes down on a separate sheet of paper - this will be your list.

Then work with your wish list as your intuition tells you. Some people reread their wishes every day, others once a week or month. If your wish comes true, cross it off the list, and if you come up with something new, update the list. Don’t be afraid to experiment, because that’s the only way you’ll discover your personal formula for success.

Have you already made your wish list? Tell us - we'd love to hear about your experience.